Bob Odenkirk would like to remind you that life is a meaningless farce (nytimes.com)

79 points by wslh a day ago

wslh a day ago

bradhe 2 hours ago

When you're successful and rich (enough, at least), this is a nice whimsical thing to say. When you're suffering in the trenches, this isn't very helpful.

julienmarie an hour ago

On the contrary, read the piece. He's not saying it from comfort, he's saying it after a heart attack, after his kids grew up, after the form he loved became a young man's game. The farce isn't a punchline delivered from above; it's what's left when the registers that used to hold you don't anymore. And his answer isn't despair, it's "we've got to keep trying… there's a breeze beneath my wings." That's not whimsy. That's the thing the trenches actually teach you, if you survive them.

Phemist an hour ago

A triple "It's not this... it's that"...

danparsonson 33 minutes ago

tranceylc 35 minutes ago

bingkaa an hour ago

throw0101a 35 minutes ago

> On the contrary, read the piece. He's not saying it from comfort, he's saying it after a heart attack, after his kids grew up, after the form he loved became a young man's game. The farce isn't a punchline delivered from above; it's what's left when the registers that used to hold you don't anymore.

Sounds like a typical mid-life (identity) crisis?

Contrast this with the life perspective of Stephen Colbert, who lost his father and two brother to a plane crash when he was 10:

> “It was a very healthy reciprocal acceptance of suffering,” he said. “Which does not mean being defeated by suffering. Acceptance is not defeat. Acceptance is just awareness.” He smiled in anticipation of the callback: “ ‘You gotta learn to love the bomb,’ ” he said. “Boy, did I have a bomb when I was 10. That was quite an explosion. And I learned to love it. So that's why. Maybe, I don't know. That might be why you don't see me as someone angry and working out my demons onstage. It's that I love the thing that I most wish had not happened.”

> I asked him if he could help me understand that better, and he described a letter from Tolkien in response to a priest who had questioned whether Tolkien's mythos was sufficiently doctrinaire, since it treated death not as a punishment for the sin of the fall but as a gift. “Tolkien says, in a letter back: ‘What punishments of God are not gifts?’ ” Colbert knocked his knuckles on the table. “ ‘What punishments of God are not gifts?’ ” he said again. His eyes were filled with tears. “So it would be ungrateful not to take everything with gratitude. It doesn't mean you want it. I can hold both of those ideas in my head.”

> He was 35, he said, before he could really feel the truth of that. He was walking down the street, and it “stopped me dead. I went, ‘Oh, I'm grateful. Oh, I feel terrible.’ I felt so guilty to be grateful. But I knew it was true.

* https://archive.is/https://www.gq.com/story/stephen-colbert-...

His interview with Anderson Cooper, where they go over this (amongst other things), is worth checking out (see ~12m43s):

> Then you have to be grateful for all of it. You can't pick and choose what you're grateful for. So what do you get from loss? You get awareness of other people's loss, which allows you to connect with that other person. Which allows you to love more deeply and understand what it means to be a human being, if it's true that all humans suffer. […] It's about the fullness of your humanity: what's the point of being here and being human if you can't be the most human you can be? I'm not saying 'best', because you can be a bad person but a most human. […]

* https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YB46h1koicQ

reedf1 an hour ago

I'm not sure what you are trying to express here. Is it "rich people shouldn't express their worldview" or "the idea that life is inherently meaningless is incorrect"? A younger me ingested this sentiment as a call to action to create the meaning I wanted in the world.

coldtea 31 minutes ago

>Is it "rich people shouldn't express their worldview"

If that was the case, how better off we'd be.

armchairhacker 13 minutes ago

azan_ 11 minutes ago

coldtea 32 minutes ago

That's backwards: it is helpful to keep that in mind precisely when you're suffering in the trenches.

Rich and succesful people try to forget that, which is their hubris.

mrleinad 39 minutes ago

I doubt Bill Hicks was that rich. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KgzQuE1pR1w

coldtea 30 minutes ago

Or Bukowski. Or Lenny Bruce. Or any other number of people "in the trenches".

AndrewKemendo 16 minutes ago

Having been in both, literally and metaphorically, it’s a useful mantra both places

You can also use “this too shall pass” if you want a lighter version

sph 2 hours ago

Your comment is exactly what successful and rich people say. You can find a lot of joy and acceptance among the poorest of people: the mind is remarkably adaptable, yet it's only those that always strive for more that cannot enjoy life's little moments.

I truly dislike this recent trend of making people feel bad if they have learned to just slow down and be content with life. "It's privilege being able to take a break and smell the roses, I'm too busy for this nonsense" is protestant crab mentality that I find revolting.

smugglerFlynn an hour ago

Exactly! What a high-profile actor’s life represents to an accountant or a programmer, that accountant’s or programmer’s life similarly represents to a factory worker, and so on.

I've met "too busy for this" people in every line of work, regardless of their pay band. When you get to know people, you will see that pretty much everyone has their own trenches, and slowing down is a matter of priorities, not privilege.

tipiirai an hour ago

I think you misinterpreted. The comment said "When you're suffering...", not "When you're poor..."

sph an hour ago

throw0101a 22 minutes ago

> You can find a lot of joy and acceptance among the poorest of people: the mind is remarkably adaptable, yet it's only those that always strive for more that cannot enjoy life's little moments.

See perhaps Viktor Frankl on this:

> Man's Search for Meaning (German: ... trotzdem Ja zum Leben sagen. Ein Psychologe erlebt das Konzentrationslager, lit. '... Say Yes to Life nonetheless: A Psychologist Experiences the Concentration Camp') is a 1946 book by Viktor Frankl chronicling his experiences as a prisoner in Nazi concentration camps during World War II, and describing his psychotherapeutic method, which involved identifying a purpose to each person's life through one of three ways: the completion of tasks, caring for another person, or finding meaning by facing suffering with dignity.

> Frankl observed that among the fellow inmates in the concentration camp, those who survived were able to connect with a purpose in life to feel positive about and who then immersed themselves in imagining that purpose in their own way, such as conversing with an (imagined) loved one. According to Frankl, the way a prisoner imagined the future affected their longevity.

* https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Man%27s_Search_for_Meaning

* https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Viktor_Frankl

lukewarm707 an hour ago

if you are too busy to think consequently everything you are doing is without knowing any justification or explanation

"too busy" is arguing for ignorance, which is defensible but not agreed on

bell-cot 2 hours ago

Yeah - but it may be a good way to articulate a bleak, from-the-trenches perspective on the world.

CTOSian an hour ago

oh yes, it becomes like this s/farce/curse

lo_zamoyski an hour ago

Strictly speaking, meaninglessness is opposed to farce. You can’t have both utter meaninglessness and farce, because meaning is intrinsic to farce.

Comedy presupposes meaning, because comedy hinges on the absurd, but the absurd is a departure from meaning or a deviation from it. Something is absurd when it fails to be meaningful and fails to satisfy the rational in the broader context of rational meaning.

There is no laughter in the utterly meaningless. There cannot be silliness without an overarching context of seriousness.

styluss 3 hours ago

> The world is like a ride in an amusement park. And when you choose to go on it you think it's real because that's how powerful our minds are. And the ride goes up and down and round and round. It has thrills and chills and it's very brightly colored and it's very loud and it's fun, for a while. Some people have been on the ride for a long time and they begin to question: "Is this real, or is this just a ride?" And other people have remembered, and they come back to us, they say: "Hey, don't worry, don't be afraid, ever, because this is just a ride."

Bill Hicks

Fixed name

frereubu 3 hours ago

The title reminded me of this too, but it was Bill Hicks, not Richard Hicks.

shrubby 2 hours ago

Bill Hicks was spot on for most of the things.

aswegs8 2 hours ago

So basically, Buddhism?

keybored 2 hours ago

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prngl 2 hours ago

This was an interesting interview. Like a lot of great comedians, Odenkirk has a very grounded and bleak view of the world. I suppose a lot of art, comedy included, is a way of coping with their perspective, for themselves and for the audience.

AntiUSAbah 2 hours ago

The thing is, if you never question anything, just lifing is worth it in itself.

If you do think too much about everything, and you survive this, you will land somewhere and this somewhere will be content.

I'm thinking about happiness and what I want for so long, that I now have crossed my half life point.

You also need to have a certain amount of freedom to even have this problem which makes it weird for others not having this. Oh you are not happy? But you have money?! I would be happy with money, i'm struggling.

Its weird if you sometimes think it would be interesting to struggle.

nozzlegear 21 hours ago

When the zeitgeist is overwhelmingly nihilist, dare to be an absurdist.

mapontosevenths 28 minutes ago

I came here to say this.

Once you realize that life has no meaning, except that which we arbitrarily assign, you can only go a few ways with it. Of all the 'ism's you could choose in that moment, absudism is perhaps the least worst.

"Credo quia absurdum est."

alexose 2 hours ago

I liked the shoutout to On Cinema at the Cinema. Truly one of the most hilarious and fascinating pieces of comedy in the last couple of decades.

davexunit 2 minutes ago

It's my favorite comedy of all time. It's been going for over 10 years with a lot of little spin offs along the way. For those that want to take the plunge you can watch the first first ten seasons, Oscar specials, Decker, etc. for free on YouTube. Use this playlist to watch everything in chronological order.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qFHLfmoLchI&list=PLRT5PdjVF-ip...

fiftyacorn 2 hours ago

American or British farce?

saberience 2 hours ago

This is the kind of thought that only rich and successful people can have.

If you're working every day in a coal mine so you can feed your children otherwise they will go hungry, then you don't have these kind of thoughts.

Similarly, if you're fighting in a war so your family isn't raped or murdered then you don't have these kind of thoughts either.

Basically, you're lucky if you live in a situation that gives you the leisure and time to sit around and think about life being a farce. Probably he should be sitting around thinking, "boy, i'm so lucky I get to sit in this nice coffeeshop with no reason to work, no threat to my life, just chilling, so I can ponder on what a farce life is"

Edit: Because some people start criticising my comment, here's an addition:

How many people who were living in the 1700s do you think sat around thinking life is a farce?

Ponder on that question. Out of everyone living in the world today, how many people do you think sit around thinking life is a farce, who are those people? Why do you think they are thinking this?

I think it's an important question to ask and think about. It's saying something about our society, way of life, way of seeing the world.

In my opinion, life is for living, being with people, engaging in the world, taking action, connecting with people, and giving back. When you stop living, engaging with the world, and spend too much time alone, you start thinking this way.

I think if Bob Odenkirk lived on a community farm where everyone had to work together to survive he would be far happier and think life is far more meaningful.

mapontosevenths 14 minutes ago

> How many people who were living in the 1700s do you think sat around thinking life is a farce?

The name for this view of the universe is "absurdism". It was first espoused, as far as I can tell, when the discourse of Qohelet was recorded in the book of Ecclesiastes. So yes, they had it in the 1700's although perhaps not by that name.

> If you're working every day in a coal mine so you can feed your children otherwise they will go hungry, then you don't have these kind of thoughts.

This is almost the opposite of the truth. Those with careers that do not occupy their minds do not sit around with their brains idling and empty all day. They spend much of that time thinking about exactly this sort of thing.

Tade0 an hour ago

I believe he addresses this point:

> There’s no question that the security that you feel from not being afraid of a health issue or housing is a great comfort and helps you to be more at peace with life. It’s just not as much help as you think it should be.

Fricken 6 minutes ago

Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player That struts and frets his hour upon the stage And then is heard no more. It is a tale Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, Signifying nothing

-William Shakespeare

sph an hour ago

Already ranted about comments like yours: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47919820

It's shows true ignorance about what happiness is and where it's found. You can probably find more smiles and hope for the future in the Ukrainian trenches than reading comments from Silicon Valley workers making $150k a year.

I mean, do you guys even know Buddhism any more? It was such a hip thing in the 70s over there.

watwut an hour ago

Miners had elevated suicide rates and alcoholism rates. And when you read stories of families from such environments, similar thoughts were present. Yes, they did had these kind of thoughts. It is not just perfectly possible to be poor hard worker with family and have depression or missing meaning of life, but entirely common.

pillefitz an hour ago

So you're saying that life isn't a farce? Or that it is, and poor people don't ponder it? Just expressing disapproval of rich people?

lukewarm707 an hour ago

the only thesis/proposition i see in the comment would be:

"poor people don't think about it"

no other claims

saberience an hour ago

keybored an hour ago

Your last sentence claims that he should appreciate how lucky he is. But this is a different question from what, at face value, the statement that life is meaningless or absurd is about. The two choices (first being operative in this thread):

1. Life is meaningless: descriptive claim

2. You ought to appreciate life to the best of your ability: normative claim

Your argument has no bearing on the first claim.

3s 31 minutes ago

> I think if Bob Odenkirk lived on a community farm where everyone had to work together to survive he would be far happier and think life is far more meaningful.

So you think everyone was happier in the USSR? /s

saberience 29 minutes ago

So you think everyone in the USSR lived on a community farm?

I guess you don't really understand the USSR then...

echelon_musk 3 hours ago

That's the only explanation that could justify how terrible Better Call Saul turned out.

guilamu 2 hours ago

Most people, including me, beg to disagree. Better Call Saul was a masterpiece.

https://www.metacritic.com/tv/better-call-saul/

forinti 2 hours ago

I really enjoyed Better Call Saul and thought it was much much better than Breaking Bad. Walter White was such an irritating character. Saul was a brilliant hustler.

pythontongue an hour ago

I could see Better Call Saul appealing more to the Hacker News community than Breaking Bad. Kim and Jimmy often give off founder/startup energy (e.g. S2E7)

tucnak 44 minutes ago

Yeah, I abandoned Breaking Bad around mid-season 2 because of how boring, slow, and repetitive it had become. Better Call Saul, on the other hand, was constantly clicking for me, from one episode to another. The writing is magnificent. There were a few slow-rollers, of course, but they were nothing compared to drip-feeding in Breaking Bad.

AntiUSAbah 2 hours ago

Is this some kind of ragebait?

Cinemagraphicly wonderful, storyline? awesome. Characters and Character development? great

wg0 2 hours ago

I have watched it several times. Every time it hits different. It surely is a masterpiece.

strogonoff 2 hours ago

I couldn’t make it through Breaking Bad, but I couldn’t put down Better Call Saul. Different boats for different floats.

sd9 an hour ago

How far through did you get? I think it gets significantly better in season 2, and continues improving thereafter. Basically after they starting bringing in bigger overarching storylines.

I made a few false starts where I couldn’t really get through season 1, but after I persisted it was worth it.

strogonoff 28 minutes ago

pythontongue an hour ago

Capricorn2481 2 hours ago

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pawelduda 2 hours ago

I'm curious what makes you say that

jamesnorden an hour ago

Said no one ever.

dnnddidiej 3 hours ago

Terrible? Nah it was good. Really slow in places tho.